COMPLAINT-FREE LIVING

Insights from Philippians 2:14

I find it easy to complain about things. Usually, we don’t think of this as a sin, but it is. God lays out a clear mandate regarding this in Philippians. Upon reading this imperative, I questioned God because it seemed extreme to me.

“Do everything without grumbling or arguing …” Philippians 2:14 NIV

Dear Lord, can you help me understand “everything?” Does that include everything? Is this a typo? Didn’t you mean “some things.” There is much in this world to grumble and complain about!

Child, I want those with a relationship with me to mature and better understand my expectations. I want you to be devoid of grumbling and arguing. 

Wow, Lord, this is hard.

AVOID COMPLAINING
It's easy to grumble and argue about various aspects of life. However, Philippians 2:14 reminds us to do everything without grumbling or arguing. Let's explore this verse and other scriptures reinforcing the importance of maintaining a positive attitude and spirit.

This verse powerfully reminds us to approach every task, interaction, and circumstance with a spirit of gratitude and positivity. Rather than complaining or disputing, we're called to embrace a mindset of contentment and peace.

Ephesians 4:29 encourages us to watch our words carefully. Instead of grumbling or arguing, our speech should be uplifting and edifying to others.

"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Ephesians 4:29 NIV

We bless others by speaking words of encouragement and kindness and avoiding complaining about them, others, or our own circumstances. 

AVOID ARGUING 
As Colossians 3:17 points out, we should not argue unless it is in the name of the Lord Jesus. How often do we argue in Christ’s name? For me, the answer is never. Any argument I have ever had has been in my name, for my rights, to get my way. My, my, my. There is a pattern here. Perhaps this describes your arguments as well. 

"And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." Colossians 3:17 NIV

If we could remember to do everything in Jesus Christ's name and with a heart filled with thanksgiving, we would be much more joyful. Wouldn’t we? We don’t need to argue for our rights, which is what most arguments are about. God is already our advocate and has given us the right to heaven. 

"It is to one’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel." Proverbs 20:3 NIV

Avoiding conflict and arguments is of tremendous value. As Proverbs 20:3 explains, it is honorable to seek peace rather than engage in strife. If I could only remember that when I think my rights are being violated by someone! May we always gain and maintain the mind of Christ.

GAIN AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE
Approaching life with an attitude of gratitude reduces our tendency to grumble or argue and encourages us to see every moment as an opportunity to honor God.

Many spend hours in prayer, asking for God’s will to be manifested in our lives. Yet, Thessalonians 5:18 makes it clear what his will is for us. We're called to give thanks no matter what circumstances we find ourselves in. 
"Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 5:18 NIV

Even in the midst of challenges and trials, there is always something to be grateful for. When we cultivate a spirit of thanksgiving, grumbling and arguing lose their grip on our hearts.

CONCLUSION
As we reflect on these scriptures, let's strive to live free from grumbling and arguing. Instead, let's choose gratitude, kindness, and positivity in all that we do. By doing so, we honor God and contribute to a more loving and harmonious world. Let's embrace the challenge of Philippians 2:14 and let our lives shine with the light of Christ.

Complaint-free living will result in more of Christ’s joy, peace, and love. We can’t argue against that, right?

Your aspiring servant, Daniel M.
 April 30, 2024
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